Tuesday, May 25, 2010

The many "unexpected"s

"Due to unforeseen circumstances..."
"Just when I was about to..."
"I actually wanted..."
"The original plan was..."
How familiar are the above in life?!?!
And very often, the unscrupulous salesperson-me, has used them with no restriction. I mean, I really have no control over the what-so-ever....sometimes!
How unexpected are the "unexpected"s?
Honestly speaking, if I were to do a self-reflection, those can be anticipated and avoided.
I hate to admit but, most of the unexpected happens when we take things for granted.
Health problem, Marriage crisis, Financial tsunami...We tend to blame it on the weather, a 3rd party, the economy or even...God!
Very convenient but we will never learn; we will not get better.
So, your pick! Get better by learning or get bitter by blaming.
Having said, err, there are really things beyond us lah *wink*

Wednesday, May 19, 2010


- When he appeared at my place after I returned from JB
- Bought dinner for me when I was feeling unwell
- Spent so much to make me happy
- Warmed my hands whenever I am freezing
- Assured me when I don't think well of myself
- Think of me even when he is so busy
- Gave in to me at times I am over demanding
- Serve me during his off days

Look at the number of "me"s!
Time to switch from recipient mode to giver mode :)

Sunday, May 09, 2010

So...it's true

That one can talk himself/ herself into the happy feeling.
It's not so much of what had happened or what did not happen;
It's how badly you want to be chirpy again.
Still, it's pathetic when you had to excuse yourself to hide behind the four walls,
Just to unlearn the negative and learn the positive.
Rehearsing in front of the mirror to smile,
Finding a good reason to shed a few droplets.
Why didn't anyone say, I had to make such effort?
What's so good about the "I-am-now"?
I'm in pain. This time, I'm really am.

Happy Mom's Day

Saturday, May 08, 2010


Friday, May 07, 2010

Simple Things In Life

I love walking the distance with the one I love;
He has gone the miles for me.
We have so much more ahead;
We are not even half way there yet.
Thou I yearn for better and greater,
I am grateful to what was given.
The simple and the "oh-so-usual",
Brings a wide smile on my face.
If I have to ask for something else,
It is to have 48 hours-
To have more time with you each day :)

Monday, May 03, 2010


I came home with a mindful of thoughts; I shall not go into details.
But I will work it out; It will work out