In his & his & His eyes

In his eyes, I am someone who goes all out for Jesus and I expect my loved ones to do the same.
True but that caused me to ponder, am I imposing my standard, pressuring others to perform up to human's expectations?
Is either on par or better. Can't be any lesser.
Is that good or bad?
In his eyes, I am someone he loves and cares. I feel pampered.
What a luxury to be able to dress down from an "iron lady" to an "ordinary woman", for just a journey long.
To me, that's good enough.
In His eyes, I can rest in His presence and show my true self without reservation.
I can cry and howl; I can laugh and smile
I am free to express myself, knowing He will be there anyhow.
I want to be in His house:)